• 05Jun


    Choices abound when looking for books and resources about cooking and entertaining. The Food Network has fueled renewed interest in cooking and home entertaining to an astonishing level. Television shows present celebrity cooks/chefs who give weekly creative ideas and know-how to viewers. Internet cooking sites and blogs are bursting at the seams with creative entertaining ideas and recipes available to their visitors.

    How does someone new to cooking and entertaining assimilate all of the information? Is it possible for a beginner to wade through the phenomenal amount of information without being completely overwhelmed? Does the landslide of information on invitations, decorations, menus, tablescapes, theme parties, wine lists and party planning tend to discourage some rather than encourage?

    While all of this information is a virtual cornucopia of lovely, fresh ideas, those new to entertaining and cooking need to concentrate on doing a few important things well rather than to make the mistake of thinking they need to master all of the above at the outset in order to be successful. In other words, beginners need to concentrate on the basics. They will gain skills and confidence and will be able to pull off enjoyable dinner parties from the very beginning.We will get into specific in my next post.

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  • 26Apr

    Mother’s Day  is such a sweet celebration of one of the most important bonds on earth. It is a great idea to take the opportunity to show your mom you love her. And it is important that small children learn to show their appreciation for their moms as well.

    We had a tradition in our family when my children were young. On Mother’s Day morning as I lay in bed, I would hear my husband and 3 boys giggling and banging pots and pans in the kitchen. After the enticing aroma of burnt toast brought me to a fully conscious state, I would hear a knock at the door and see smiles on the faces of my little boys. They would proudly show me the tray of eggs, bacon and well-done toast along with juice, coffee and a bud vase with a flower one of them picked from our yard with a homemade card.

    It was a tradition that we all enjoyed and in the process my husband taught the boys to show their love and appreciation to their mom. Keep it simple and watch how enthusiastic your kids will be to serve their mom in this special way.

    Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms out there who labor every single day to do the best for their kids.

    Happy Entertaining!

    Host a Mother’s Day Brunch!

    If you are on a tight budget this year consider hosting a brunch at your home rather than taking your mom out to a restaurant. Brunch is generally less expensive than dinner but that does not mean yours cannot be a luxurious meal you will all enjoy. Purchase an exotic fruit juice such as guava or passion fruit and champagne and serve guava mimosas in sugar-rimmed stemmed glasses. If you prefer a non-alcoholic beverage, simply mix the juice with lemon-lime soda for a refreshing spritzer. Serve croissants, cinnamon rolls or muffins with butter and jam. Add a platter of sliced, fresh fruit and freshly brewed coffee.Try this absolutely delicious recipe for  my Tuscan Sunrise Omelet  and Italian Sausage Crescent Roll for this special occasion.

    Tuscan Sunrise Omelet

    Makes 2 omelets

    1 red pepper

    3 tablespoons pesto sauce, purchased

    ¼ cup sliced brie

    4 eggs

    2tablespoons milk or half & half

    4 teaspoons butter or oil

    Cut the pepper into 4 slices, wash and remove seeds. Place the red pepper quarters, skin side up in baking pan under broiler for 4-7 minutes until peppers are roasted, skin is blistered and somewhat blackened. Remove and place in brown paper bag & close tightly. Let steam for 5 minutes. Remove from bag and with a paring knife, remove the clear skin from the peppers and discard. Chop pepper quarters coarsely.

    For each omelet: Using a fork or whisk, slightly beat 2 eggs with 1 TBS. milk or half & half. Add egg mixture to omelet pan coated with 2 teaspoons melted butter or oil. Cook for 2-3 minutes and carefully turn. Immediately, spread ½ of omelet with 1 ½ tablespoon pesto sauce, 2 tablespoons roasted peppers and 2 tablespoons brie. Fold omelet in half. Remove from heat and plate. Prepare 2nd omelet in the same manner. Season both with salt and pepper to taste.Shortcut: You may use ¼ cup purchased, roasted red peppers instead of roasting your own.

    Toast your Mom!

    Giving a toast to the person of honor at any special occasion adds a meaningful element to the day. Sometime toward the end of the meal, simply stand up, raise your glass, and     announce that you would like to make a toast.You can briefly share what you appreciate most about your mom, a special memory you have of her, or attributes that you admire about her in her presence with your guests. Everyone will in turn raise their glasses and say, “Cheers!” I can guarantee it is something your mother will never forget. It seems as though we always mean to tell people why we admire them, but all too often those things aren’t shared. Even if you are not accustomed to speaking in front of others, I encourage you to try. You are in your own home, with those you care about in attendance.Use a 3-by-5-inch card to write down some notes if you need to. Your toast does not need to be long, but say what you want to say to honor her. We are alive today. Make the most of every opportunity to build others up and share your generous hospitality.

    Italian Sausage Crescent Roll

    Serves 4
    ½ pound bulk sausage (spicy or regular)
    ¼ teaspoon garlic powder
    ¼ teaspoon ground oregano
    ¼ cup purchased pizza sauce
    1 pkg. refrigerated crescent rolls
    1 egg, beaten

    Heat oven to 350 degrees and brown sausage in frying pan and drain well. Add garlic powder, oregano and pizza sauce; mix well.
    Unfold crescent roll dough onto ungreased baking sheet. There will be 8 triangles of dough. Pinch all seams together to make 1 large piece of rectangular dough. Spoon sausage mixture down the middle of the dough and roll.  Pinch long seam together and place seam side down on middle of baking sheet.  Cut 3 slits on top and brush with beaten egg and bake for 16-18 minutes. Slice and serve hot.

    Free Mother’s Day Gift Ideas

    Coupons for Mom: Go to www.mothersdaycentral.com to print out free coupons that you can customize for your mom.

    Act of Love:Wash her car, clean the house, play an instrument, write a poem, act out a skit, share a special memory. Take the opportunity that you have THIS Mother’s Day to express your love and gratitude to your mom.

    Fun Mother’s Day Gift Ideas

    Customized Photo Album: Take a trip to your local craft store. Most stores have a great selection of scrap booking supplies and many carry kits to make a special album. Assemble one for your mom with a theme. Your theme can be: Grandmother, Childhood Memories, Mom as a Young Woman, Special Vacations, etc. She will cherish it.

    Personalized Gifts such as Birthstone Necklace I have one and I love it! www.ThingsRemembered.com

    Warm Weather Shawl: Shawls are beautiful, inexpensive and functional gifts. You never have to worry about the size and lightweight shawls dress up casual outfits and take the chill out of a spring or summer evening. Most discount stores have a wonderful assortment of absolutely beautiful shawls.

    Dinner-of-the-Month Club:www.AmazingClubs.com has many great clubs that you can enroll your mom in. They deliver a gourmet meal with specialty pasta and have a month-to-month Dinner-of-the-Month Club for $24.95 per month, a 3 month club (delivered once a month) for $71.85 or a 3 month Dinner-and-a-Movie Club (they deliver a movie with dinner) for $89.95. They also have other clubs such as: Dessert-of-the-Month, Tea-of-the-Month and Wine-of-the-Month.

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  • 28Jan

    Here are some tips for casual entertaining for a (February 7th) Superbowl Party.

    This year’s Superbowl features the Indianapolis Colts versus the New Orleans Saints. This gives you an opportunity to get together with your friends and lift the winter doldrums with a casual party. You can please fans from both sides by incorporating food from both cities into your menu.

    • Ask guests to bring food for the buffet/snack table that represents the team’s city they are rooting for.
    • Set up a buffet table and make a large pot of Spicy Seafood Gumbo. This classic gumbo contains crab and shrimp and is served piping hot over steamed rice. If you have always wanted to try Cajun food, this recipe will not disappoint and is easy enough for a beginner to accomplish.DSCN0846
    • The Colts’ team colors are blue and white and the Saints’ team colors are gold and black. Incorporate these colors into your party ware and decorations.

    Keep it simple and have fun. One of the great aspects of a Superbowl Party is the casual feel and approach.

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  • 19Nov

    MakeupA couple of weeks ago,  I appeared as a guest chef on Torrance Citicable’s cooking show, Community Cooking. I think it is interesting to see how these shows are taped. This is the third episode I have appeared on and this appearance was a lot of fun!

    After choosing my menu, I shopped for the items and prepared the recipes  several times before the show. There are no teleprompters or cue cards on set, so I needed to have everything memorized and be very familiar with all the ingredients. The day before the taping and the morning of, I prepped all of my ingredients and packed everything to be transported to the set location. The producers of this show have won awards for their productions and they have everything pretty much down to a science.

    When I arrived, the make-up girl does her magic. Her goal is to make me look GORGEOUS on camera. Well, actually, her job is to make sure I don’t look like a glow worm on camera, but I prefer my version! She does a great job, but just between the two of us, I needed a jackhammer to get all that make-up off my face later. Yikes!

    Prepping2Then, it is on to prepping the kitchen and setting up all the ingredients for the recipes. I demonstrated how to make Coconut Salmon with Pineapple Salsa, Aromatic Herbed Rice and Broccoli with Parmesan.

    Next, comes the grips. They set up the lighting and make adjustments to the set so the finished show will look great. The sound technician then sets me up with a wireless mike. The three camera guys get set up for their angles and close-ups and the producers outside in the trailer are watching everything from there. These shows are a real team effort to pull off and everyone on set was professional and good at what they did. In this photo I am chatting with the producer, Jin about oven temp, stove set-up, etc.

    Talking w Producer

    Once all the technical end is set up and tested, we are ready to tape. This is where the host comes in. Tanya is an important part of the show and her job is to make sure the show not only moves along, but is also fun and informative for the viewers. We start taping and Tanya and I interact as I demonstrate how to make these scrumptious recipes. I also like to give entertaining tips and shortcuts.  It takes roughly 30 minutes to Conversing w Hosttape the show. The food is plated and photographed and then the crew gets to sample!

    You might wonder how you overcome nerves speaking in front of cameras , interact with the host AND actually effectively demonstrate recipes and cooking techniques. First of all, I put in the preparation time to make sure viewers are going to get delicious recipes and tips. My secret is simple: I like to have a good time with it. I actually envision myself in your kitchen, just talking to you. I love to cook and host dinner parties for family and friends. I think it adds quality to life!

    Community Cooking airs on Time/Warner Channel 1 in Torrance at 9:30 am on weekday mornings. The producers also post shows on their website several months after airing on television. For those of you who live outside of Torrance, once I receive the link to the show, I’ll post it on my website for viewing.

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  • 13Oct

    I hosted a dinner party this past Saturday as a thank you to friends who helped us produce six cooking shows.  I almost forgot how much I love to host dinner parties. At-home entertaining adds quality to life. Extending your hospitality to those near and dear is a gift that you give to them. I have written in the past how important it is for hosts to concentrate on three main areas when entertaining. This is how I took my own advice!

    The Food:

    1. I thought about my menu before I invited my guests and chose some special occasion recipes that would reflect my appreciation for the friendships. I served Crudites, Crostini and Goat Cheese Dip as an appetizer and roasted Beef Tenderloin, Savory Sauce, Autumn Salad, Parmesan Rolls, Potato Sage Gratin, Haricott Verts with Garlic & Almonds and Apple and Pumpkin Crunch pies. I also served Apple Martinis and wines.
    2. I organized and paced myself by writing down my shopping list and purchase items in advance. I also made my menu managable by purchasing frozen bread dough that I thawed and customized for the Parmesan Rolls. I purchased the pies freshly made Saturday morning from a great bakery and I buzzed through our Farmer’s Market to pick up the Haricott Verts Saturday morning so they would be at peak flavor. I get really excited about this stuff when I know my guests are going to love it! I also prepped the Goat Cheese Dip on Fri.
    3. On Saturday morning, I made myself a To-Do list which really helped keep me on track. I find this helps immensely so I am not too tired to enjoy my guests’ company when they arrive. It also helps me have everything done on time so I’m not flitzing around the kitchen in a frenzy.
    4. This meal tasted so yummy! Everyone seemed to thoroughly enjoy it. I find so much satisfaction when I know I can serve my guests a meal that would rival a delicious meal in a fine restaurant.

    The Table: DSCN0788

    1. As you can see from the photo, I kept things simple. An inviting dining table need not be extravagant. I purchased scrap booking paper to use as faux chargers/place mats. I used my set of 12 white dinner plates that I topped with inexpensive, decorative salad plates. Cloth napkins added to the “Special Occasion” feeling I wanted to portray. I used simple candles in votives for sparkle and chrysanthemums in clay pots for the centerpiece.
    2. I set up the bar on my Baker’s rack in the background.

    The Tone:

    1. The host sets the tone for the party. By pacing myself, writing down my To-Do list and prepping recipes in advance, I had plenty of time to get dressed and ready before guests arrived. I was ready to greet them at the door when they arrived. Since I was relaxed, I was able to set the same type of tone for my dinner party.

    The result was we had a fantastic time with each other. Nothing beats enjoying each other’s company along with great food/drink in an intimate environment. This gives all who attend something to look forward to  and it just rejuvenates the soul!

    Happy Entertaining!

    Patricia Mendez

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  • 30Sep

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    pumpkinsDo you need some easy tips for fall entertaining? Check out this article in the Chicago Tribune written by their Food & Wine Critic, Bill Daley. I contributed tips and recipes to this helpful article. Click here to view.

    Happy Fall Entertaining,

    Patricia

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  • 10Sep

    Pumpkin Scones with Maple Icing (Makes 6 large scones)

    2 ½ cups all-purpose flourPumpkin Scones4
    ¼ cup brown sugar, firmly packed
    1 tablespoon baking powder
    ¾ teaspoon pumpkin pie spice
    ½ teaspoon salt
    ½ cup (1 stick) butter, cut into small pieces
    ¾ cup canned pumpkin
    1/2 cup milk
    Maple Icing
    1 cup powdered sugar
    1 teaspoon real Maple syrup
    1 tablespoon milk, plus up to 2 teaspoons more

    Pre-heat oven to 375 degrees. In bowl, mix flour, brown sugar, baking powder pumpkin pie spice and slat. Add butter, cut with pastry cutter or two butter knives in a criss-cross motion to form pea-size crumbs.

    In a separate bowl, mix pumpkin and milk together. Add to flour mixture and stir until moistened. Knead on floured board about 5 times. Do not over mix or the scones will not be tender. Form dough into 6 inch round, about 1 ½ inches thick and cut into 6 equal-sized wedges. Bake on a baking sheet sprayed with cooking spray for 18-20 minutes.

    Cool and prepare icing by mixing ingredients in small bowl. Drizzle on cooled scones and serve.

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  • 08Sep

    The kids are back in school and it is time to catch up and invite your friends over for a weekday get-together. Delight your guests with this easy entertaining menu that includes 4 choices of coffee drinks; Café au lait, Austrian Coffee, Belgian Coffee and Iced Caramel Frappucinos. Prepare a fresh pot of coffee to use in all four choices. In my next post, I’ll give a wonderful recipe for tender Pumpkin Scones with Maple Icing to serve at your coffee. Happy Entertaining!
    Caramel FrappucinoCoffee drinks4
    1/2 cup coffee

    2 tablespoons sugar

    1/2 cup milk

    2 cups ice

    ¼ cup caramel sundae syrup

    1 can whipped cream

    Combine all ingredients into electric blender and blend until drink is smooth. Serve in coffee cups and top with whipped cream and drizzle with caramel syrup.

    Café au lait
    Warm milk on stovetop or microwave until hot, but not scalded. (Do not bring to a boil). Prepare in a cup with equal quantities of hot coffee and milk.
    Austrian Coffee
    Pour a freshly brewed cup of coffee. Top with whipped cream and ground cinnamon and serve.

    Belgian Coffee

    Add 1 square of chocolate to a 1 cup of hot coffee.

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  • 31Aug

    Hi Everyone,

    People are always looking for ideas for entertaining. I have been a bit behind in my blog posts because I have been concentrating on planning, prepping, hosting AND taping 4 cooking demonstrations for use on the internet. (I still have 2 more to go!) If you have ever considered taping your own cooking show or just curious about how one is produced, here are the steps I took:

    1. I chose the recipes and tips that I would highlight on each show.

    * Since I specialize in helping beginners learn to host casual entertaining, I chose recipes from my book that are easy and delicious.

    2. I organized myself with shopping lists, recipes and a loose script for the show.

    * I cannot stress enough that the prep stage the week before is one of the most important. There are a lot of details that need to be present and pulled off well to make the cooking  demo part of it look easy.

    3. I practiced, practiced and then practiced some more!

    * There is a balance needed with this part. Yes, you need a script that you have mostly memorized, but you also want to be spontaneous and be yourself!

    4. Shopped for props and organized all kitchen utensils, bowls, tools needed. Chose my wardrobe. Did all grocery shopping.

    * This takes some time and focus, so whatever you do, don’t wait until the day before taping to do this part. Pacing yourself will really help relieve stress.

    5. The morning of the shoot, I set everything up in the kitchen. Applied  my makeup with special matte finish makeup to minimize shine from camera angles.

    * This is crunch time. Just walk yourself through the entire demo. This will help you catch anything you may be missing. I have a very fair complexion, so I needed to purchase a special make-up. My husband, Augie says that light skinned people are the hardest to light. Your wardrobe needs to be a darker color; blue works well. I found this part right before taping, challenging. You are trying to focus on your part (hosting) when there is a lot of movement/conversation from crew going on around you. I was trying to focus and not to sweat all my makeup off! Very different than teaching before a class or group of people. Now I know why many tv chefs have a live audience. It is a bit easier to know if you are connecting the way you want.

    6. Augie works in the motion picture business and with the help of some friends also in the biz, provided professional lighting, camera, sound and direction. This took about 2 hours to set up.

    * All these guys were so professional and know exactly what they were doing. Because of this we were not slowed down with loads of technical problems.

    7. Taped each show (2 per day)  with many angles and close-ups.

    * This part is a lot harder than it looks. Being able to walk and chew gum at the same time helps! Having energy, smiling, being yourself and accomplishing your goal to give great information and encouragement to potential viewers is a lot to remember. We had our share of bloopers and multiple takes and it was a team effort! I’m excited that we have produced quality shows.

    * I have appeared as a guest chef on cooking shows before, but those shows always had a host to help guide. In this show I was the host and chef so it was much different.

    8. An additional 2-3 hours to clean everything up. Whew! Were we tired.

    * As you can imagine there is a lot of equipment, food, props, dishes.  Dang, my fairy godmother wasn’t around to wave the magic clean up wand!

    Now, the raw taping will go to an editor who will have the important job of putting it all together. This has been a great experience and I can’t wait to see the finished products!

    Happy Entertaining!

    Patricia Mendez

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  • 06Aug

    Who doesn’t love steak on the grill? Mix together your own spice rub with this easy recipe and you can use it for steaks, chops or ribs. It adds mucho flavor for tasty steaks! Follow the recipe below for absolutely perfectly cooked steaks for your next summer party entertaining.

    6-8 oz. New York Strip Steaks

    BBQ Rub

    2 tablespoons paprika
    2 tablespoons seasoned salt (such as Lawry’s)
    1 ½ teaspoons onion powder
    1 ½ teaspoons garlic salt
    ½ teaspoon oregano, ground
    ½ teaspoon thyme, crushed
    ¼ teaspoon fresh cracked black pepper

    Mix all ingredients together for rub. Store leftover rub in airtight container for future use. Rub on both sides of steaks and let marinate in fridge for 30-60 minutes. Grill over a very hot grill rubbed with oil for 4-5 minutes per side for 1 inch thick steaks for medium doneness. Do not overcook. Remove to platter, cover with foil and let rest for 5 minutes before serving.

    TIP: When grilling steaks, use a timer and do not leave the grill!

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  • 03Aug


    Try this quick and easy recipe for your summer entertaining! Perfect for dessert for those warm summer evenings.

    Lemon Pound Cake with Warm Blueberry Sauce

    1 – 12 oz. lemon pound cake, purchased

    Warm Blueberry Sauce

    2 cups blueberries
    2/3 cup granulated sugar
    3 tablespoons lemon juice, fresh squeezed
    2 tablespoons cornstarch

    Combine sugar, lemon juice and cornstarch in saucepan until dissolved. Heat to boil and add blueberries. Turn down heat and simmer for 5-7 minutes until sauce is thickened. Slice lemon pound cake and serve blueberry sauce on top. Also tastes delicious on ice cream.

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  • 27Jul

    Calypso Summer Veggie Grill

    3 small zucchini squash, sliced
    2 small yellow squash, sliced
    2 tablespoons olive oil
    1 small red onion, chopped
    2 cloves garlic, sliced
    2 tomatoes, chopped
    1/3 cup feta cheese, crumbled
    ¼ cup fresh basil, torn
    1 teaspoon Italian spice seasoning (optional)
    Salt and pepper to taste

    Toss zucchini, yellow squash and onion with olive oil and stir-fry on stove or in a pre-heated grill basket for 5-6 minutes. Add Italian seasoning and garlic and continue to stir-fry for 2 additional minutes. Remove from heat; add chopped tomatoes, basil and feta cheese. Salt and pepper to taste, toss and serve.

    NOTE: This Veg Grill is also delicious served cold. Pack up for great picnic food.

    Corn on the Cob with Lime Butter

    8 ears corn, shucked, silks removed
    1 tablespoon salt

    Fill a large pot with cold water. Add salt and corn and bring to a boil. Turn off heat, cover and let sit for 10 minutes and serve.

    Lime Butter
    3 tablespoons butter, melted
    2 tablespoons lime juice, freshly squeezed
    Zest of 1 lime
    ¼ teaspoon cayenne pepper
    ¼ teaspoon salt
    Combine ingredients in small bowl and serve with corn.

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  • 14Jul

    This recipe is great for party entertaining. Serve it as an appetizer or as a side dish. Use a purchased pie crust, purchased basil pesto, fresh mozzarella and of course beautiful, plump tomatoes. The aroma is incredible and so is the taste. Serve it with a bottle of sangiovese wine. You and your guests will love it!

    Happy Entertaining!
    Patricia Mendez


    Tomato Tart

    1 refrigerated pie crust, purchased, room temperature
    ¼ cup Parmegiano-Reggiano cheese, grated or regular Parmesan cheese
    1 – 4 oz. container or ½ cup basil pesto sauce, purchased
    8 ounces fresh mozzarella, thinly sliced, drained well
    3-4 medium tomatoes, red, orange, yellow
    2 tablespoons fresh basil, torn for garnish

    Place pie crust in 9 inch tart or pie pan. Press down on bottom and sides of pan. Press down edges and stab crust with a fork in several places. Sprinkle with Parmegiano-Reggiano cheese and bake for 10-12 minutes at 450 degrees or until golden brown. Cool.

    This tart is best quickly assembled right before serving. Spread pesto sauce in bottom of tart crust and top with slices of mozzarella. Arrange tomato slices, working from the outside to the inside of the tart. Salt and pepper and slice into small wedges and garnish with a bit of the fresh basil to serve. Slice into 14-16 appetizer-size serving pieces and serve immediately. To serve as a side dish, cut into 8 slices.

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  • 13Jul


    This past weekend, my husband Augie and I and our friend, John drove up to Paso Robles, CA to attend an annual party at a friend’s vineyard. Once out of the snarled L. A. traffic, we took a northeast route out of Santa Barbara to Santa Barbara wine country. I have been to Santa Barbara many times, but had never made the trek to the wine region. Wow, what beautiful country. Dry, golden hills dotted with green grape vines and live oaks. We stopped at a few wineries including Fess Parker’s (remember Daniel Boone?). They had a cheese and wine tasting room and it was packed!

    Our friend, John grew up on California’s central coast and knew the region like the back of his hand. He introduced us to little, out of the way historical places like a stagecoach stop from the 1870’s. The folks there were rustling up some mean smelling barbecue with live music under the shady live oaks. Thankfully, the heat was mild and the grilled veggie salad with lingonberry vinaigrette delicious. It’s a little out of the way place that lots of bikers stop at.

    Our party hosts, Chris and Kim were wise to pull off their party by doing a few simple things well. The lovely vineyards themselves were the backdrop to the live music, played by some of Chris’ friends. Chris grilled tri-tip and all guests brought side dishes, potluck style. There were lots of tasty, refreshing summer salads and of course lots of wine. Chris featured his 2006 Cabernet Sauvignon which was a perfect choice. He grows Cabernet and Merlot grapes. I was fascinated by the whole process of wine growing and making. We met so many nice people, mostly neighbors and fellow vineyard owners. They were passionate about the wine they grew and about good food. It was a perfect summer evening.

    The next day, we drove down to Cambria and down the coast. We stopped for lunch at Morro Bay at Haufbrau’s right on the bay. They are famous for their french dip sandwiches, which of course we just had to try! They brought out huge, freshly roasted beef and hand carved it. They served them with a robust au jus and freshly grated horseradish. There is a reason Haufbrau’s has been in business for so many years; they have great food!

    We stopped at John’s boyhood home. It is perched up on a hill overlooking Morro Bay. John’s brother still lives there. The wall-to-wall windows displayed magnificent 180 degree views; the gorgeous coast along with humongous Morro Rock right in the middle. What a view to wake up to every morning! John entertained us with stories of his teenage antics living in the central coast area in the 70’s, back when Morro Bay was a sleepy, affordable little town.

    What is it about the ocean that is so calming and rejuvenating at the same time? California’s central coast has a beauty all it’s own. Vineyards have just exploded in California. The conditions in many places are just right for producing outstanding grapes. This was a picturesque peek at life in California, from bustling beach towns to golden country vineyards. What a treat!
    Patricia Mendez

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  • 06Jul


    Cooking for a crowd this summer? Try these refreshing watermelon recipes to help you celebrate summer.

    Watermelon/Lime Agua Fresca

    3 cups watermelon, seedless, chopped
    4 cups water
    ¾ cup granulated sugar
    ¾ cup fresh lime juice (6-8 limes)
    Watermelon wedges or lime slices for garnish.

    Puree the watermelon with 2 cups water in the blender. Pour the mixture in a strainer over a bowl and strain well. Use the back of a spoon to push the liquid through, but not the solids. Pour strained watermelon liquid into pitcher. Add remaining 2 cups water, sugar and lime juice. Stir well until sugar is dissolved. Refrigerate for two hours before serving.

    To serve, stir and pour into glasses and garnish with watermelon wedges or lime slices. Enjoy!

    OPTION: For a cocktail, add 1 cup white rum to pitcher.

    Watermelon Salsa

    2 cups watermelon, seedless, chopped
    ½ cup jicama, peeled and chopped
    ½ cup cucumber, seedless, chopped
    2 tablespoons sweet onion, such as Maui, chopped finely
    1 large jalapeno pepper, seeded and chopped finely
    2 tablespoons fresh cilantro, chopped
    2 tablespoons fresh lime juice
    Zest of 1 lime
    Salt and pepper to taste

    Mix all ingredients in bowl and salt and pepper to taste. If you cannot find the jicama, you may use 1 cup of cucumber. Serve with chips or as an accompaniment with any type of seafood.

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  • 23Jun


    Paletas are mouth-watering Mexican ice cream bars. They are usually fruit based or fruit and milk based. They come in deliciously different flavors like Mango, Coconut, Tamarind, Pecan and so many other flavors. Host a paleta party for the neighborhood kids or surprise your friends with these tasty treats when entertaining for a cool summer dessert. They are easy to make and fun to serve.

    My husband, Augie relayed a story to me of a fond childhood memory. In hot weather, his mom would make her children homemade paletas. They didn’t have much in the way of finances but her frugality did not impede her creativity. She had a wonderful ability to make her kids feel loved and well-fed. She had a secret ingredient that she used in all her paletas that is alive and well in Augie’s memory to this day. Instead of the traditional milk used in cream based paletas, she used sweetened condensed milk for extra richness.

    Enjoy these recipes for homemade paletas and try other flavors like banana, chocolate, rice pudding, vanilla or Mandarin orange. You are only limited by your imagination! Thanks for the inspiration, Nana!

    Pina Colada Paletas

    1 cup sweetened condensed milk
    ½ cup pineapple, crushed
    ½ teaspoon coconut extract

    Mix all ingredients together and pour into ice pop molds or plastic disposable cups with snap on lids. Push a popsicle stick in the straw opening in the lid. Freeze well and serve.

    Strawberry Cream Paletas

    1 cup sweetened condensed milk
    1 ¾ cups strawberries
    1 tablespoon lemon juice

    Wash strawberries and remove hull and stem. Place in blender with the condensed milk and puree until smooth. Mix strawberry cream mixture with lemon juice. Pour into ice pop molds or plastic disposable cups with snap on lids. Push a popsicle stick in the straw opening in the lid. Freeze well and serve.

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  • 16Jun


    Dads are usually pretty responsible guys. They work hard all year long, spending most of their time on things they have to do rather than on things they would like to do. On top of their careers, there are the miscellaneous chores around the house, the striving to be a good father and husband and ever-present responsibilities. It isn’t easy to be a dad!

    This year, show your dad your love and appreciation by preparing this delicious splurge barbecue menu. Lobster isn’t something you eat every day, so this is a real special occasion treat. Purchase your frozen lobster tails economically from a warehouse store or seafood vendor. Serve the tails with fragrant Citrus Butter and sides of Mexican-Style Corn on the Cob and a Southwest Caesar Salad. Finish your meal with the Fresh Fruit Tart with Mascarpone Cream.

    Grilled Lobster Tails with Citrus Butter
    4-6 eight ounce lobster tails, frozen, defrosted in fridge for 12 hours
    ¼ cup orange juice
    2 tablespoons lime juice
    2 tablespoons lemon juice
    ½ cup butter (1 stick), room temperature
    1 teaspoon orange zest

    Bring a large pot of water to a boil. Add the lobster tails and bring back to a boil. Let cook for 5-6 minutes and remove. Drain well. Pre-heat your grill to high. Add orange, lime and lemon juices to small sauté pan along with butter and orange zest. Heat until butter is melted and simmer on low for 2-3 minutes.

    With kitchen scissors, cut through the underside of the lobster tail lengthwise. Do not cut through the hard back shell. Brush the meat with oil and salt and pepper. Grill the tails, meat side down for 2-3 minutes. Turn and grill for 2-3 additional minutes. Serve with the citrus butter.

    Grilled Mexican-Style Corn-on-the-Cob
    6-8 ears fresh corn
    ½ cup mayonnaise
    ¼ cup grated cotija cheese or parmesan
    Red pepper hot sauce or ancho chile powder
    Salt & pepper to taste

    Peel back outer husk of corn and remove silks and run corn under cold water. Replace husks and wrap each cob in heavy duty foil. Cover the grill and cook, turning every few minutes for 15-20 minutes. Remove foil, peel back husks away from corn but do not remove(this serves as a handle to make it easier to eat).

    Slather with mayonnaise, salt & pepper and cotija cheese and serve. Let guest splash hot sauce or sprinkle ancho chile powder on their corn, if they desire.

    Southwest Caesar Salad
    Dressing
    1/2 cup olive oil, divided
    2 teaspoons Worcestershire sauce
    1 tablespoon sherry wine vinegar
    Grated zest of 1 lime
    1 small Serrano chile, seeded and chopped
    1 tablespoon mayonnaise
    1/4 teaspoon salt

    Salad
    3 heads romaine lettuce, or 2 bags (10 ounces each) prepared chopped romaine
    1/2 cup chopped cilantro
    3/4 cup grated Cotija Mexican cheese or Parmesan cheese
    1 cup purchased croutons

    To make the dressing, put 1/4 cup of the olive oil in a bowl and whisk the Worcestershire sauce, vinegar, lime zest, chile, mayonnaise, and salt. Thoroughly blend together. Very slowly pour in the remaining 1/4 cup olive oil while whisking. Taste and, if necessary, add more salt.

    To make the salad, if using heads of romaine, remove the outer leaves and discard. Wash and dry the romaine and chop coarsely. Place in a large salad bowl. Add the cilantro and cheese. Cover and refrigerate until ready to serve.

    Right before serving, add the croutons to the salad. Shake or whisk the dressing well and toss about half to three fourths of the salad dressing with the salad.

    Fresh Fruit Tart with Mascarpone Cream
    1 – 18 oz. roll refrigerated sugar cookie dough, room temperature
    1 cup raspberries
    1 cup blackberries
    1 cup strawberries, sliced
    2 kiwis, peeled and sliced
    1 – 8 oz. carton mascarpone cheese
    1 – 3 oz package cream cheese, room temperature
    ¼ cup granulated sugar

    Glaze
    ½ cup granulated sugar
    2 tablespoons cornstarch
    1 teaspoon lemon juice
    ½ cup orange juice

    Spray 9” tart pan or pie pan lightly with cooking oil. Press cookie dough into pan and up the sides and poke several holes with a fork and bake 15-20 minutes at 350 degrees F. Cool.
    Mix all glaze ingredients in a small saucepan, whisking constantly. Bring to a boil and simmer 1-2 minutes. Cool.

    Mix the mascarpone cheese, cream cheese and sugar together in small bowl and spread on top of cooled cookie crust. Arrange the fruit in a pleasing fashion. Start on the outside and work around into the center.

    Spread cooled glaze over fruit and refrigerate up to 3 hours before serving. This tart is best served the day it is made.

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  • 05Jun

    This Marinara Sauce recipe takes about 10 minutes to prepare from start to finish. Grating the onion liquefies it and gives the sauce incredible taste, along with the fresh garlic. Try it for a healthy, quick meal, fit for entertaining guests. Add a salad and a loaf of foccacia for a complete meal.

    Marinara Sauce – Serves 6-8

    1 – 28 oz can plum tomatoes, blended or processed till smooth
    4 tablespoons olive oil
    4 cloves garlic, minced
    ¼ cup onion, grated
    ¼ teaspoon hot red pepper flakes
    ¼ teaspoon salt
    2 tablespoons fresh basil, torn
    1 – 14.5 oz. whole grain pasta, any shape

    Heat olive oil in large sauté pan. Add garlic and onion (it will be liquefied from grating it) to olive oil and stir 1-2 minutes until fragrant. While oil is hot, stir in tomatoes, add red pepper flakes and salt and simmer for 5 minutes. Add basil and serve over pasta cooked according to package directions.

    Options: Feel free to add any veggies or sweet Italian sausage to this pasta. It is also delicious in any type of baked pasta. Kids love it!

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  • 28May

    Whenever I am writing a dinner party menu, part of the process includes testing recipes. I test lots and lots of recipes. Yesterday I tested Grilled Pizzas.

    Let’s face it, lots of folks don’t want to heat up the kitchen in the summer by turning on the oven. So if you are craving pizza, you can prepare this quick and easy recipe on your grill. It is reminiscent of a wood-fired pizza and is fresh and delicious. Add a crunchy salad and this meal is just right for summer!

    Margherita Pizza

    Makes entrée size pizza for 1-2 persons or appetizers for 4

    1 – 8 oz. pizza dough ball, purchased
    3 tablespoons olive oil
    1 clove garlic, peeled and chopped
    2 fresh plum (Roma) tomatoes, sliced
    4-6 ozs. fresh packed mozzarella (in water), drained well and sliced
    2 tablespoons Parmigiano Reggiano cheese, or regular Parmesan cheese, freshly grated
    8 basil leaves, fresh, chopped

    Turn a baking sheet upside down and brush with olive oil. Rub a bit of the olive oil on your hands and spread dough into 8” round on the back of the baking sheet, keeping the dough a uniform thickness. Pre-heat grill and brush grate with olive oil. Carefully remove dough from baking sheet and place it directly on grill grate (or you may invert a baking sheet on the grate brushed with olive oil). Let crust cook 1-2 minutes until the bottom of crust starts to harden. Turn, brush with additional olive oil. Quickly add garlic, cheeses, tomatoes and grill for 6-8 minutes until toppings are melted and crust is cooked through. Slide pizza from grill onto cutting board, salt & pepper to taste, add fresh basil, slice and serve.

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  • 22May

    It has been reported that there were an estimated 2,221,000 weddings in the United States in 2008*. New nesters have settled into their new homes and started their lives together. This includes hanging out with friends and family. More than ever, people who have been out in the workforce all day decline to get back out in the hustle and bustle of traffic and crowds to socialize with friends in noisy restaurants. Look at the phenomenal success of the Food Network. People are interested in learning how to cook and how to throw great dinner parties that fit their budgets. There is a return trend to casual entertaining at home.
    The problem? Many new nesters have never entertained in their lives and don’t know how to go about it. What’s more, they have little time to pull off elaborate entertaining and few have the budget to hire expensive caterers or personal chefs. It is easy to imagine a comfortable evening at home with delicious food and drink, great music and the laughter of good friends and family. The question is how does one pull it off with a small budget and little or no experience?
    1. First of all, a beginner needs to disabuse herself of the notion that she has to be an accomplished gourmet chef to host a fabulous dinner party.
    2. She also needs to avoid the opposite extreme in thinking that she will inevitably be a nervous wreck if she attempts at-home entertaining.
    3. The novice host needs to focus on doing a few simple things well: She needs to concentrate on the food, the table and the relaxed, fun tone that she sets as host. The beginner does not need to focus on elaborate invitations, detailed decorations and complicated menus.
    4. A beginner who paces herself in sensible planning, preparation and presentation gains confidence which leads to greater success and enjoyment of casual at-home entertaining. Simple time-saving tips like making a shopping list for recipe ingredients saves unnecessary last-minute trips to the store.
    5. Once a host has chosen an unfussy menu, a call or e-vite is all that is necessary for a casual dinner party. A menu that can be prepared in advance is best for the beginner. If he/she has never prepared the recipes before, it is a good idea to divide the recipe in half and try it ahead of time. This gives more confidence on the day of the event.
    6. Using items such as dishware, glasses and serving trays that the budding host already owns saves time and money rather than purchasing themed paper goods and decorations. A simple low vase of flowers and unscented candles add to the ambiance. Good music also sets the mood.
    7. Two hours before the dinner party, the host should take time to get dressed and ready. As the guests arrive, each should be welcomed and introduced to other guests. With introductions made and a drink in hand, guests will immediately feel at ease.
    8. The host sets the tone for the evening. Being poised and relaxed is a great start for an enjoyable time. Last but not least, a host should have fun and add his or her own flavor and style to entertaining. Guests will enjoy this most of all!
    *WeddingReport.com

    Happy Entertaining!
    Patricia Mendez

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  • 27Apr

    Memorial Day is the day we honor those who have given their lives in the military to defend our freedom and our country. Getting together with family and friends for an afternoon of great food and socializing adds wealth and quality to life! It is important to not only look back and remember, but also to look forward and celebrate life and freedom. In today’s posting, find Memorial Day weekend decorating ideas, traditions and activity ideas.

    Easy, Budget Friendly Decorating Ideas:

    a. Fly the flag at your front door! Many discount and drug stores carry inexpensive flags with mounting hardware in one kit.

    b. Give each guest a poppy to wear (with pin or sticky tape) in honor of those who have fallen in battle. This tradition started after WWI to honor those who had died in battle.

    c. Decorate the table in red, white and blue. Purchase a white or blue checked tablecloth and patriotic disposable tableware. Have a low vase of beautiful poppies or red and white anenomes in a pitcher on the table and purchase small flags at a party supply store and put them in festive containers like aluminum galvanized or enamel buckets in sand. Or use patriotic banners for decorations on your serving table. Use a clean wheelbarrow or child’s red wagon with ice to chill drinks.

    1. Start a tradition:

    a. Take a few moments to share a story about a fallen veteran (family member or any soldier). This puts the focus on honoring and celebrating a real hero’s life and sacrifice.

    2. Activities:

    a. Make homemade vanilla ice cream with an old fashioned crank ice-cream maker. Let the kids help!

    b. Pull out the badminton, volleyball or have a family softball or basketball game. Play games like three-legged race, balloon toss, sack race.

    c. Visit a national park during Memorial Day weekend. Many national parks observe Memorial Day weekend by parades, memorial speeches, reenactments and living history demonstrations, and the decoration of graves with flowers and flags.

    d. View a parade: Go to: http://www.vetfriends.com/memorial_day_parade/index.cfm to find parades in your area.

    Happy Memorial Day!
    Patricia Mendez

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  • 06Apr


    Easter is right around the corner. I have put together this quick and easy entertaining menu that is appealing to both kids and adults alike. Invite your family and friends and if you have kids in attendance host an Easter egg hunt. Prepare about 8-10 eggs per child with toys and treats and hide them around your yard or house. Let the kids use their Easter baskets to gather the eggs and hide them in more obvious places for very young children.

    Place Easter candy in different sizes of glass containers in a grouping for a fun and festive table centerpiece. Use robin eggs, marshmallow chicks, foil-wrapped chocolate eggs, jelly beans and other colorful candies. Use a sunny yellow or vibrant pink tablecloth or runner and white dishware, if you have it.

    If you want more munchies, ask a guest to bring deviled eggs and/or fruit and veggies plus dip.

    Have fun and don’t forget to take lots of photos!

    Traditional Ham with Honey-Orange Glaze
    Serves 8 – 10
    1 – 4 to 5 pound ham
    1 cup honey
    2 tablespoons brown sugar
    ¼ cup orange juice
    ¼ teaspoon ground cloves

    Pre-heat oven to 325 degrees. Bake ham for 1 hour 15 minutes. Spread glaze over ham with a barbeque brush and bake an additional 30-45 minutes. Let rest for 10 minutes, slice and serve. Warm any leftover glaze in small saucepan and serve with ham.

    Gruyere Herb Mashed Potatoes
    Serves 8-10
    2 pounds potatoes, Yukon Gold, peeled, chopped into 1” cubes
    2 tablespoons butter
    1 – 1 ½ cups half-and-half or whole milk
    2 cups Gruyere cheese, shredded
    1 teaspoon oregano, chopped, fresh
    1 tablespoon flat-leaf (Italian) parsley, chopped, fresh
    Salt and freshly ground pepper

    Place potatoes in a medium saucepan and cover with cold water and bring to a boil. Simmer until tender, 18-20 minutes.
    Drain the potatoes and place in large bowl. Add the butter, half-in-half or milk. Mash with a potato masher or electric mixer. Do not over mix. Stir in the cheese and herbs and season to taste with salt and pepper.

    Walnut Green Bean Salad
    Serves 8
    1 pound green beans, fresh, trimmed & cut in half
    2 cups good quality croutons
    2 tablespoons Parmesan cheese, freshly grated
    ½ cup walnuts
    ½ teaspoon oregano, fresh, chopped or ¼ teaspoon dried
    1 teaspoon parsley (Italian) fresh, chopped
    Zest of 1 lemon

    In a medium saucepan, blanch the beans in boiling water with 1 teaspoon salt for 2-4 minutes. Drain in colander and immediately run cold water over the beans to stop the cooking process. Drain well.
    In a 325 degree oven, toast walnuts on baking sheet for 2-5 minutes and cool. Make dressing.
    In a large bowl, toss green beans with dressing. Add lemon zest, Parmesan, croutons and walnuts. Season to taste with salt and pepper and serve.

    Dressing:
    ¼ cup olive oil
    ¼ cup walnut oil
    ¼ cup sherry vinegar or red wine vinegar
    1 teaspoon Dijon mustard
    1 teaspoon white onion, chopped finely or grated
    ½ teaspoon garlic, chopped finely
    ¼ teaspoon salt
    Whisk ingredients together in a small bowl and add to green beans.

    Strawberry Cream Squares
    Serves 9
    1 (16.5 oz.) roll refrigerated sugar cookie dough
    4 cups strawberries, fresh, sliced
    1 ¼ cups sugar
    ¼ cup water
    Pinch salt
    2 (1/4 oz.) envelopes unflavored gelatin (baking aisle)
    1/3 cup cold water
    1 cup whipped topping or whipped cream

    Pre-heat oven to 350 degrees. Press half of the sugar cookie dough into the bottom of an 8 x 8 inch square baking pan. (Use the other half for cookies). Bake cookie crust for 15-20 minutes until golden brown. Cool.
    In a small saucepan, bring strawberries, sugar, ¼ cup water and salt to a boil. Reduce heat and simmer for 5-6 minutes, stirring occasionally. In a small bowl, sprinkle gelatin over cold water; let thicken for 1-2 minutes and stir into strawberry mixture. Simmer until gelatin dissolves (about 1 minute) and remove from heat.
    Cover and refrigerate until completely cool, 2 hours. Fold in whipped topping or whipped cream, refrigerate 1 more hour and spread over cookie crust. Cover and refrigerate for at least 2 hours. May be made one day in advance.

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  • 12Mar


    Catch up and spend some time with family and friends. Start with this quick and easy dinner party menu. Add a helping of hospitality and a full measure of warmth and fun. Serve with a smile and enjoy the laughter and friendship that fills your home!

    Even if you have never entertained in your life, you can host enjoyable and successful dinner parties. Do a few things and do those well!

    Menu – Serves 8
    Grilled Salmon with Orange Butter Sauce
    Rosemary Red Potatoes

    Raspberry Fudge Cream Puff Dessert

    Grilled Salmon with Orange Butter Sauce
    2 1/2 pounds salmon fillets, wild caught or if not available, farm-raised
    2 tablespoons frozen orange juice concentrate
    1 teaspoon finely grated orange zest
    1/2 cup unsalted butter, cut into pieces
    1/8 teaspoon cayenne pepper (optional)
    salt to taste
    freshly ground pepper to taste.

    Light an outdoor grill or stove-top grill and spray with cooking spray. Brush the salmon with olive oil and salt and pepper. Grill the salmon (skin-side down) over medium heat for 3-4 minutes. Turn over and with a spatula or knife, remove skin from salmon and discard. Grill for 3-4 minutes more. Remove from grill, cover.

    Place the orange juice concentrate in a bowl and heat over a pan of simmering water. Remove from heat and whisk in the zest, butter and cayenne pepper. Season with salt and pepper, pour over salmon and serve immediately.

    Rosemary Red Potatoes

    2 pounds baby red potatoes, scrubbed and cut in half
    1/4 cup olive oil
    1 tablespoon fresh rosemary, finely chopped
    1 tablespoon kosher salt
    freshly ground pepper to taste

    Pre-heat oven to 400 degrees. Bring a large pot of salted water to a boil and pre-boil potatoes until tender, 10-15 minutes. Drain and place in a large mixing bowl. Add olive oil and rosemary and stir well to coat. Spray baking sheet with cooking spray. Spread potatoes on baking sheet and sprinkle with salt and pepper. Bake for 25 minutes; turn potatoes over halfway through cooking time.

    Raspberry Fudge Cream Puff Dessert

    1 package frozen vanilla mini cream puffs
    1 (11.5 oz.) jar hot fudge ice cream topping
    1 pint fresh raspberries

    Defrost cream puffs according to package directions. Place 4-5 in dessert bowls. Heat fudge topping microwave for 30-60 seconds, stir and pour about 2 tablespoons over each dessert. Top with fresh raspberries and serve immediately.

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  • 06Feb

    Entertaining your sweetheart on Valentine’s Day does not mean you have to spend a lot of money. Try these budget-friendly tips whether you have one valentine or several “little” valentines.

    Tokens of Love:

    1. Purchase one or two mini-boxes of 2 decadent Godiva brand dessert truffles at Godiva.com for $5 each. Most people are still trying to recover from the holidays by cutting calories. Rather than purchasing a whole pound of chocolates, this size is just right for a luxurious little treat of world-class chocolate. They come in a little gold box with a ribbon.
    2. Purchase a small heart shaped box (2-4 pieces per box) of chocolates for your “little” valentines. Hold it behind your back and ask your mini-sweetie if he will be your valentine. Give a hug and kiss with his special treat from mommy or daddy.

    Greetings of Love:

    1. Send a free e-card to your sweetheart’s email or mobile phone.
    2. Take a trip to your local craft store and make a homemade Valentine card. You don’t have to be crafty; just use a little construction paper, lace paper doilies and a glitter pen. Homemade gifts and cards are always so much more special than expensive purchased cards. Try your hand at writing a heartfelt poem in the card or recall a funny or silly moment together.

    Acts of Love:

    1. Share an interest. If your darling loves football or fishing, watch a game or go for a fishing trip together. If your sweetie complains that you rarely see movies that interest her, catch a check-flick or romantic comedy together. Showing interest in each other’s activities promotes love and intimacy.
    2. Valentine’s Day falls on a Saturday this year, so surprise your Valentine with a day trip somewhere he/she has been longing to visit such as: a special museum, national park, theme park or local festival. If you belong to a union, a credit union or AAA, check their website for discounts to members to many local attractions.

    Keep it simple and have fun. It is in quiet moments like these that you and your Valentine can unwind, connect and recharge.

    Happy Entertaining!
    Patricia Mendez

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  • 23Jan

    Easy Entertaining for Beginners was named a 2009 Silver Recipient in the Cookbook-Foods category of the Mom’s Choice Awards.

    I am thankful to the judges of the Mom’s Choice Awards for recognizing my book for excellence in family-friendly media, products and services.

    I truly believe that hosting casual entertaining for family and friends adds wealth and happiness to life.

    Happy Entertaining!

    Patricia Mendez

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  • 03Jan

    When people make their New Year’s resolutions, they usually start out with a bang. Most people have good intentions of being healthier, better, more rounded individuals. Many have sworn that this will be the year they will connect more with family and friends. As the years fly by, life seems to crowd out what we would like to do with what we have to do. And before we know it another year has gone by, filled with work, responsibilities and the ever-elusive free time we envision to spend on things that really count.

    Don’t get me wrong, work and responsibilities are all part of life. Having healthy relationships with family and friends are usually at the top of the priority list for most folks. Having those near and dear into your home for social interaction adds quality and wealth to life. If this is the year you are determined to spend more time with those you care about, consider these tips:

    1. Cut down on meeting your friends in expensive restaurants and plan a couple of simple dinner parties/family barbecues this year in your home. Entertaining in your home adds a wonderful level of intimacy that you just can’t find in most restaurant atmospheres.

    2. Start small. Six to eight people is a good number for a first dinner party. Think about who you would like to invite and choose a dinner party menu with easy recipes. If you don’t have any cookbooks, conduct a quick internet search. There are many great websites and recipe databases where you can get terrific recipes.

    Even if you have never entertained in your life I believe anyone can learn with a bit of instruction, patience and practice. You can do it!

    Happy Entertaining,
    Patricia Mendez

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  • 01Dec

    1. Ignore the request for RSVP and attend the party anyway.

    2. Call to RSVP that you will attend and then be a no-show when you get a better last minute offer.

    3. Bring a friend who was not invited.

    4. Be fashionably, habitually late to every dinner party.

    5. When invited to a family event, ignore your children and let them run amuck at your host’s home.

    6. Attend the party in a grouchy mood. Make sure everyone knows about it.

    7. Or don’t say a word to anyone all night and definitely don’t get out of your comfort zone to meet and socialize with new people.

    8. Dominate every conversation no matter what it is about.

    9. Leave your cell phone on and when it rings continually, have long conversations that other party-goers are forced to listen to.

    10. Drink too much and then insist that you are ok to drive.

    Happy Holidays!
    Patricia Mendez

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  • 24Nov

    Here is an easy recipe for the holidays. It is great to transport to another location or to prepare for your own celebration. It assembles in about 5 minutes and bakes in 35-40 minutes. And kids love it too!

    Creamy Corn Pudding

    Serves 6-8

    1 – 14.75 ox. can corn, drained
    1 – 14.75 oz. can creamed corn
    2 extra large eggs, beaten
    1 – 8 oz. pkg. corn muffin mix
    1/2 cup butter or margarine, melted (1 stick)
    1/2 cup light sour cream
    1/2 cup low-fat ricotta cheese
    1/2 teaspoon salt
    Freshly ground pepper, to taste
    1 cup cheddar cheese, grated

    Pre-heat oven to 350 degrees. Melt butter in 9″ x 13″ glass casserole or baking pan in microwave for 30 seconds (more if needed). In a medium bowl, mix all ingredients together except for cheddar cheese. Pour into pan and bake for 20-25 minutes. Sprinkle cheese on top and bake for 10-15 minutes more or until butter knife inserted in casserole comes out clean.

    Happy Thanksgiving!
    Patricia Mendez

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  • 15Nov

    Last year, my oldest son Martin and my daughter-in-law Cheryl decided it was time to take the plunge and host their first Thanksgiving feast for our family. I happened to be over when the turkey came home from the store and Martin asked me what they should do with it. I explained to them that they needed to:

    1. Defrost it in the fridge in it’s original wrap in a pan for 2-3 days to thaw.
    2. Take out the bag of giblets (liver, heart, kidneys) out of the large cavity of the turkey and (reserve for stock) before roasting.
    3. Take out the neck in the opposite smaller cavity of the turkey (reserve for stock) before roasting.
    4. To make it easier, I recommended that they not put the stuffing in the turkey, but rather bake it in a separate casserole dish.
    5. I told them to refer to the “My First Thanksgiving” chapter of my book, Easy Entertaining for Beginners for further simple instructions and a detailed step-by-step checklist.

    They thought that sounded easy enough. I got a call from Martin the night before Thanksgiving and he sounded a bit confused. He said, “Mom, I know you said the turkey neck would be inside the turkey, but ours is still on. Do I just rip it off?”

    I knew immediately what he was talking about. I gently told him that the body part he was referring to was not the neck, but rather the tail of the turkey! He was a little embarrassed, but I told him not to be. Think about it. When the bird is alive, he is not laying on his back as he is in the neat packaging he arrives in from the store. He is the other end up. It can get confusing if you have never prepared a turkey and I thought it was a perfectly understandable mistake. I waited till I hung up to have a good laugh.

    The next day as we were in the final 30 minute countdown before the meal, I showed them how to use an instant-read thermometer to see if the turkey was finished roasting. It was no where near ready and I could feel the doubting look in my turkey roasting abilities cross Martin’s face. Hmmm… follow the checklist in your chapter and everything will be finished on time?? I admit I was stumped. The stuffing was in the casserole, not in the turkey which can typically increase the roasting time. What in the heck was going on?

    It ended up taking another full hour to roast. As Martin was readying to carve it for the meal, my daughter-in-law said, “Oh, by the way, I stuffed the turkey with some leftover ham I had in the refrigerator. I thought it might be good.” Ham! Now, that was original and my shaken confidence was restored.

    Ah-Ha, there was a perfectly sensible reason the turkey took an extra hour to roast. There was about 4 cups of chopped up ham tightly squeezed into the cavity so the turkey took much longer to fully roast! I wasn’t going crazy after all. And you want to know the really funny part? The turkey AND the ham tasted pretty darn good. They did a great job and we had lots of fun.

    Happy Entertaining!
    Patricia Mendez

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  • 11Nov

    Thanksgiving is the one meal hosts can feel the most pressure about preparing. The entire celebration is set around the meal, the Thanksgiving feast! Messing it up could make for a household full of unhappy guests. Gulp! For a beginner, the pressure could be off the charts!

    Let me start by saying what most cooking classes and books don’t tell you. Of all the meals you typically prepare in a year, this one can be the most labor-intensive. Preparing a Thanksgiving meal can be a lot of work. Every year, fantastic cooks and chefs are challenged to come up with a new take on what is a very traditional meal. They offer all types of variations and new recipes. However, since most people eat a Thanksgiving meal only once a year, they like the basics: turkey, stuffing, gravy, mashed potatoes, vegetables, rolls and pumpkin pie for dessert. So if you are a beginner who is cooking for a crowd, to keep it as simple and doable as possible, stick to the basics. The reason I tell you this is not to discourage you, but rather to prepare you. I like to know what I’m getting into ahead of time, so I can gird my loins for the battle!

    Having said that, if you follow my previous advice of pacing yourself and being organized you can pull off a delicious, memorable meal for your family and friends. And you will have joined the millions of home cooks nationwide who stare in disbelief when a Thanksgiving meal that has taken 3 days to prepare has been consumed in 15 minutes flat! Take it as a compliment. Your family will enjoy your meal and your guests will have one more thing to be thankful for…you!

    Happy Entertaining,
    Patricia Mendez

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  • 03Nov

    When November arrives it has a way of jolting you into the reality that the holidays are right around the corner! Yikes, so much to do. This month in my blog posts, I would like to give you some easy holiday ideas for entertaining along with some recipes and tips for feeding a crowd.

    I hosted an Easy Holiday Entertaining event at my home recently. The one thing that my guests agreed on was the fact that they are busier than ever in their lives. EASY Entertaining ideas are needed and have great appeal to them.

    I think entertaining should fit your life. Whether you work full-time inside or outside your home, the thought of squeezing in a dinner party, Thanksgiving feast or Christmas Open House can be overwhelming. Here are a few timesaving tips:

    1. If this is your year to host Thanksgiving or a New Year’s Eve party, be realistic and cut down on other things to make it managable for you. You don’t want the holidays to be a blur of exhausting activity that leaves you needing a week to recuperate.

    2. It is ok to take guests up on their offer to bring an appetizer, side dish or dessert to a large meal like Thanksgiving. This can take some of the pressure off and you can concentrate on the main meal items.

    3. It is ok to take guests up on their offer to help with clean-up after a large meal, like Thanksgiving.

    4. It is ok to fill in your menu with some favorite purchased items that you know your guests will enjoy. You can pick up a mouthwatering dessert at a local bakery. Local warehouse stores are huge successes because they understand what their customers need. At the holidays they carry tons of delicious dips, fresh breads. pre-made food. Take them out of the store containers and serve on your serving pieces for a beautiful presentation of purchased food along with a few recipes that you prepare.

    5. Do a few things and do those well. Concentrate on the food, table and the tone that you set as host. Forget the idea that everything has to be absolutely perfect. If you concentrate your efforts on these three areas, you will pull off fun and enjoyable dinner parties.

    Patricia Mendez

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  • 20Oct


    I got some exciting news today. My book, Easy Entertaining for Beginners has been named an Award-Winning Finalist in the cookbook:general category of the National Best Books 2008 Awards sponsored by USA Book News. To view the winners and finalists go to: http://www.usabooknews.com/bestbooksawards2008.html.

    I am continuing my virtual book tour during the month of October. Go to www.virtualbooktours.wordpress.com to view a different interview/guest blog each day. I hope you can join me.

    As always, with the holidays/entertaining season fast approaching, feel free to contact me with your entertaining questions and I will do my best to help.

    Happy Entertaining!
    Patricia

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  • 14Oct

    If you have been following my recent posts, you will see that I have been walking you through a very first dinner party. I’ve given you the dinner party menu, recipes, music and drink suggestions, step-by-step checklist and some do’s and don’ts. Here are a few last instructions to make your dinner party entertaining a success.

    Optional Shortcuts

    1. You can purchase a pie from a bakery instead of baking the Kahlua Fudge Brownie Pie if you are short on time.

    2. You can purchase baby salad greens already washed in a bag in the produce section.

    3. If you have a nice tablecloth, use it for this setting. Use cloth napkins and your best dishware. Fresh flowers in a low vase would be a lovely addition, and if you would like to use candles, be sure they are unscented. Don’t forget salt and pepper on the table and a glass of water for each person in addition to a wine glass, if serving wine. Set out the silverware and salad plates on the table and put the dinner plates in the kitchen, since you will be plating this dinner individually.

    Party Etiquette

    Turn off your cell phones or put them on vibrate mode. Turn on your answering service or voicemail and try to avoid being on the telephone when you entertain.

    Mistakes to Avoid

    Don’t compare yourself with your mother-in-law. She has had lots of years of practice and started out the same as other young wives. If you struggle at all with competitiveness or insecurity, throw it out for the evening. Remember, you are giving a gift to your in-laws of a lovely meal and gracious hospitality. Who doesn’t appreciate that?

    Tips to Ensure Success

    This entree is a good one to plate individually. First, serve the salad at the table and then arrange the haricots verts, potato and Beef Tenderloin Medallions with Savory Sauce on the dinner plates and garnish with the cilantro. Make it look neat and appealing to the eye and serve your guests their entree already plated.

    Have fun and enjoy your dinner party!

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  • 07Oct

    Now that you have all the recipes for your dinner party menu for your in-laws, here is the step-by-step checklist to help keep you organized. If you follow it, you will not have to worry about running way behind schedule. In my next post, we will discuss a few last important points about pulling off your first successful dinner party.

    Step-by-Step Checklist

    2 days before

    Clean the house, reread the recipes, and make a shopping list.

    1 day before

    Shop. Chill the drinks.

    Make the Kahlúa Fudge Brownie Pie; refrigerate.

    Morning of the dinner

    Make the Orange-Ginger Vinaigrette; refrigerate.

    Clean, cut up, and parboil the haricots verts; refrigerate.

    Chop 6 cloves of garlic, (3 for the haricots verts, 1 for the savory sauce, and 2 for the blue cheese dressing. Cover and refrigerate until ready to use.

    Prep the potatoes; refrigerate until ready to use.

    Prepare the blue cheese dressing, cover, and refrigerate.

    Prepare the Cosmopolitan mix in a pitcher; refrigerate. Set the table.

    1 hour before

    Make the savory sauce.

    Season the steaks, and set them out at room temperature, covered.

    Put the baby greens in a salad bowl, cover, and refrigerate.

    Preheat the oven and bake the potatoes.

    As guests arrive

    Turn on the music, and light candles, if using.

    Serve the drinks.

    Check the potatoes.

    15 minutes after arrival

    Toss the salad with the vinaigrette and serve.

    Put the blue cheese dressing and butter on the table.

    Pan-fry the steaks and warm the sauce over very low heat.

    Stir-fry the haricots verts, and sprinkle with sliced almonds.

    Serve the salad.

    Plate the steaks, baked potatoes, and haricots verts.

    Pour the sauce over the steaks and garnish with chopped cilantro.

    Serve.

    Sometime during the evening

    Serve the Kahlúa Fudge Brownie pie with coffee, if desired.

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  • 30Sep

    Here are the last two recipes for your easy entertaining dinner party with your in-laws. Now that you have all of the recipes for the dinner party, in my next post, I will give you the step by step checklist. If you follow it, it will help you to pull off your first dinner party seamlessly. In future posts I’ll give you some hints on Mistakes to Avoid and Tips to Ensure Success.

    Haricots Verts with Garlic and Almonds
    Makes 4 servings
    1 pound fresh haricots verts or regular green beans
    3/4 cup water
    2 tablespoons olive oil
    2 or 3 cloves garlic, finely chopped
    Salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste
    1/4 cup sliced almonds
    Wash the beans. Cut off the stem on the end of each bean. Put the beans in a large sauté pan with the water. Bring to a boil, cover, and simmer on low heat for 4 to 5 minutes. Check the water level once, and add a little more if needed. Stick a fork in a bean. When done, it should be crispy tender—not too hard and not too mushy. If you use regular green beans, you will have to increase the cooking time by 2 or 3 minutes. Empty the beans into a colander and rinse with cold water to stop the cooking. Drain well, cover, and put in the refrigerator until ready to stir-fry at the last minute.
    To stir-fry the beans, heat the olive oil in a large frying pan over medium heat and add the garlic. Cook, stirring constantly, for 1 or 2 minutes. Do not let the garlic get brown; it should only become fragrant and flavor the oil. Add the reserved green beans and stir to coat with the oil and garlic. Continue stirring for 3 to 4 minutes, or until heated through. Season with salt and pepper, sprinkle with the almonds, and serve.
    Tip: What is a haricot vert? It is essentially a French green bean, picked while young and tender. If you can’t find these, regular green beans can be substituted.

    Kahlúa Fudge Brownie Pie
    Makes 6 servings
    1/2 box fudge brownie mix (about 2 cups)
    1/3 cup hot water
    2 teaspoons vanilla extract, divided
    1 large egg
    Nonstick cooking spray
    1 small jar fudge ice cream topping
    3/4 cup low-fat milk
    3 tablespoons Kahlúa (coffee-flavored liqueur)
    1 package (3.9 ounces) chocolate instant pudding and pie filling mix
    3 cups whipped topping, divided
    Preheat the oven to 325 degrees F. In a medium bowl, combine the brownie mix, hot water, 1 teaspoon of the vanilla, and the egg. Coat a 9-inch pie pan with cooking spray, and pour the mixture into the pan. Bake for 20 to 22 minutes. Let cool completely. When cooled, spread the fudge ice cream topping on top of the brownie crust, about 1/4 inch thick.
    Combine the milk, 2 tablespoons of the Kahlúa, the remaining 1 teaspoon vanilla, and pudding mix in a small bowl. Whisk or beat with an electric mixer for 1 minute. Fold in 1 1/2 cups of the whipped topping. Spread the pudding mixture over the brownie crust.
    Combine the remaining 1 tablespoon Kahlúa and 1 1/2 cups whipped topping and spread over the pudding mixture. Refrigerate until ready to serve.

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  • 24Sep

    Please join me for a virtual book tour during the month of October to promote my new book, Easy Entertaining for Beginners. Visit www.ezentertaining.net and click Upcoming Events to find out where I’ll be touring. Comment on my blog stops and you could win a FREE virtual book tour if you are a published author or a $50 Amazon gift card if you are not a published author. I’ll be blogging about entertaining and about the process of writing the book. I hope you can join me!
    Patricia

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  • 23Sep

    As we continue with your first dinner party menu, here are the recipes for the entree and one of the side dishes for Dinner with the In-Laws. Keep in mind that this is a special occasion menu and beef tenderloin can be a pricey cut of beef. However, there is next to no waste on it, it is low in fat and this recipe is absolutely delicious. Serve easy to prepare baked potatoes with a zesty blue cheese dressing. This compliments the beef well.

    Beef Tenderloin Medallions with Savory Sauce
    Makes 4 servings
    Savory Sauce
    1 tablespoon olive oil
    1 clove garlic, finely chopped
    2 tablespoons finely chopped red onion
    1 1/2 tablespoons stone-ground mustard
    1 cup beef broth (soup aisle)
    1 tablespoon tomato paste (not sauce)
    2 tablespoons real maple syrup
    2 tablespoons cider vinegar
    1 bay leaf
    1 teaspoon salt
    Freshly ground black pepper to taste

    Steaks
    2 to 2 1/2 pounds beef tenderloin, trimmed and cut into eight 1/2-inch-thick steaks
    Olive oil
    Salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste
    1 tablespoon chopped cilantro, for garnish
    To make the sauce, heat the olive oil in a small sauté pan over medium heat. Add the garlic and onion and sauté for 1 or 2 minutes. Add the mustard, beef broth, tomato paste, maple syrup, cider vinegar, bay leaf, salt, and pepper. Simmer for 8 to 10 minutes over low heat, until the sauce thickens slightly. Turn off the heat, and cover until ready to use.
    To prepare the steaks, brush the steaks with olive oil and season with salt and pepper. Cover and let rest at room temperature. When ready to cook, preheat a large frying pan over medium heat. Add the steaks and pan-fry for 2 to 3 minutes. Turn and cook for another 1 or 2 minutes.
    To serve, place 2 steaks on each plate, spoon some of the sauce over them, and sprinkle the chopped cilantro on top.
    Tip: The biggest mistake you can make is to overcook the tenderloin. You really want it cooked no more than medium (pink in the center) for optimum flavor and tenderness.

    Baked Potatoes with Blue Cheese Dressing
    Makes 4 servings
    4 medium baking potatoes (Idaho or russet)
    Blue Cheese Dressing
    1/2 cup mayonnaise
    1/2 cup light sour cream
    1/2 cup crumbled blue cheese
    1 teaspoon cider vinegar
    Dash of bottled hot sauce, such as Cholula or Tapatio
    1 teaspoon Worcestershire sauce
    1 teaspoon finely chopped shallot
    2 cloves garlic, finely chopped
    2 teaspoons chopped flat-leaf (Italian) parsley
    Salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste
    Wash and dry the potatoes, and stab each one several times with a fork. Wrap in aluminum foil. Refrigerate until ready to bake.
    To make the dressing, combine the mayonnaise and sour cream in a medium bowl. Fold in the blue cheese, vinegar, hot sauce, Worcestershire sauce, shallot, garlic, parsley, and salt and pepper to taste. Refrigerate until ready to serve.
    To bake the potatoes, preheat the oven to 350 degrees F. Bake the potatoes for 60 to 75 minutes, or until a potato is soft when you squeeze it (with an oven mitt). Serve with the blue cheese dressing alongside.
    Tips: The reason you stab the potato with a fork is to allow steam to escape so it will not explode in your oven. Shallots are members of the onion family and are found in the produce section of your grocery store, by the onions and garlic.

    My next post will contain the recipes for the Haricotts Verts with Garlic and Almonds and the Kahlua Fudge Brownie Pie.

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  • 15Sep

    Here are some easy entertaining tips to help you host this successful dinner party:

    1. Pace yourself. Take 2 days to prepare for your dinner. The day before, re-read the recipes and make a shopping list. Nothing is more frustrating than having to make last minute trips to the store for forgotten items. This is an important tip because those last-minute trips can throw your schedule way off. Shop and mark off items needed on your list. Clean the house.

    2. The day of your party follow the checklist I will provide in future posts. This will help you stay on track and be more relaxed and ready to have a great time when your in-laws arrive.

    RECIPES

    Baby Greens with Orange-Ginger Vinaigrette

    Salad
    4 cups mixed baby greens
    2 seedless oranges, preferably, mandarin

    Orange-Ginger Vinaigrette
    1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil
    1/4 cup peanut oil
    Finely grated zest of 1 orange
    3 tablespoons fresh orange juice
    1 tablespoon grated peeled fresh ginger (produce section)
    1 tablespoon finely chopped seeded jalapeno chile
    1/2 teaspoon sugar
    Salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste

    To make the salad, make sure the salad greens are washed and dried, and put them in a salad bowl. Keep in the refrigerator until ready to toss with the vinaigrette. Peel the oranges and divide them into sections. Arrange on top of the salad.

    To make the vinaigrette, whisk together the olive and peanut oils, orange zest and juice, grated ginger, jalapeno, sugar, and salt and pepper to taste.

    To serve, toss about halof of the vinaigrette with the greens. Serve on individual salad plates.

    Tip: For orange zest, wash and dry an orange. Using the smallest holes on a grater, grate the orange part of the skin. Keep turning the orange on the grater to get all the zest. Avoid grating the white part of the skin (the pith) because it tastes bitter. You can zest lemons and limes in this way also.

    Cosmopolitans
    Makes 4 drinks

    1 1/2 cups cranberry juice
    3/4 cup vodka
    1/2 cup Triple Sec or Cointreau
    1/2 cup fresh lime juice (4 or 5 limes)
    Lime wedges and fresh cranberries or cherries, for garnish

    Pour the cranberry juice, vodka, Triple Sec, and lime juice into a pitcher, mix well and refrigerate.

    To serve, pour the chilled mixture into martini glasses and garnish with a decorative toothpick with a wedge of lime and a fresh cranberry or cherry.

    In my next post, I will give the recipes for the Beef Tenderloin Medallions with Savory Sauce and the Baked Potatoes with Blue Cheese Dressing.

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  • 08Sep

    Meal Preparation: Start by taking the time to read through all the recipes you will prepare. Once again, don’t be intimidated if you lack cooking experience. Recipes are simply a set of instructions. If you can follow instructions, you can accomplish a recipe. If you are hesitant to tackle an entire menu, start out by preparing one recipe at a time until you gain a bit of confidence. If you have very little or no cooking experience, I recommend that you prepare the main recipes a couple of weeks in advance of your event. This will give you more confidence on the day of your dinner party. Another great tip is to prepare the main meal items and purchase a delicious dessert from a favorite bakery. Or substitute one of the recipes with a tasty side dish that you already know how to prepare well. I go into that in much more depth in my book Easy Entertaining for Beginners.

    Drink Suggestions: Cosmopolitans
    Wine: merlot, cabernet sauvignon, Bordeaux

    Table Setting Suggestions: Beautiful table settings have inspired many fabulous dinner party ideas. If you have a beautiful tablecloth, use it for this setting. Use cloth napkins and placemats if you have them and your best dishware. Discount stores carry inexpensive cloth tablecloths. This can give your table a very different look from the everyday. Set out the silverware and the salad plates in individual place settings. Put the dinner plates in the kitchen since you will be plating this dinner individually. Fresh flowers in a low vase would be a lovely addition, and if you would like to use candles, be sure they are unscented. Don’t forget salt and pepper on the table and a glass of water for each person in addition to a wine glass, if serving wine.

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  • 02Sep

    Today we will be starting to plan a first dinner party. Even if you have never done so in your life, you can host great casual entertaining. I am going to walk you through hosting a dinner for your in-laws. Of course, feel free to substitute in-laws for friends or other family members. This menu is also is also appropriate for a dinner with business associates or an adult birthday party (purchase a birthday cake for dessert). I will use a chapter from my book, Easy Entertaining for Beginners.

    Since this first dinner party is informal, feel free to invite your in-laws by telephone. Set up a date at least a week or so in advance. Usually when I host a dinner party I think about the guests I would like to invite and hunt for recipes/menu at about the same time. By the time I am ready to extend the invitation to my guests, I already have a menu in mind. In this case, we already have a complete menu from my book. This menu while absolutely delicious and elegant is almost all done in advance. With the exception of pan-frying the beef medallions and a quick stir-fry of the veggie, everything will be done when your in-laws arrive, leaving you less rushed and more relaxed.

    Trust me-most family dinners are done at the parents’ home, so this will be a welcome treat for your in-laws. It will open the way for some fun, intimate conversation and promote goodwill and love in your relationship.

    MENU

    Baby Greens with Orange-Ginger Vinaigrette
    Beef Tenderloin Medallions with Savory Sauce
    Baked Potatoes with Blue Cheese Dressing
    Haricots Verts with Garlic and Almonds
    Kahlua Fudge Brownie Pie

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  • 26Aug

    Beginners should concentrate on three basic things when they are learning to host casual at-home entertaining. The first is the importance of the warm and relaxed tone that they set as host for their dinner party.

    The second element of successful entertaining is of course, the food. That may almost sound silly to even mention it; it seems so obvious. But if you are a beginner with very little cooking experience, preparing a delicious and appealing menu can be the most intimidating part of entertaining. Let me first of all offer you some encouragement. Entertaining your family and friends can be extremely fun and satisfying. And when you boil it all down to the basics, a recipe is simply a set of instructions. If you can follow instructions, you can accomplish a recipe.

    In the next several blog posts, I will walk you through hosting your first dinner party. I will give you the recipes, tips to ensure success and mistakes to avoid. I want you to gain confidence and enjoy your first entertaining experiences. Remember, do a few things and do those well.

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  • 19Aug

    There are 3 main things that a beginner needs to concentrate on when entertaining family and friends.

    1. The tone you set for your gathering as host.
    2. The food
    3. The table

    All of the other bells and whistles of entertaining can be added and learned along the way as you gain some experience. But I would like to encourage you that you can host successful entertaining if you concentrate on the three basics above. You can create wonderful memories and connect with family and friends in a very effective way.

    There is nothing wrong with meeting your friends in restaurants and that definitely has it’s place in our busy lives. But if you are doing that exclusively you are missing out. Socializing only in restaurants and happy hours is not quite the same as being invited into some one’s home. No big crowds, no waiting in long lines, no expensive bills. Just a chance to slow down in an intimate gathering with warm hospitality and good food. This is the gift you give to others when you host at-home entertaining.

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  • 12Aug

    In my last post, I blogged about how hosts can unwittingly set a negative tone for their party. Here are a few easy tips on how you can set a warm and welcoming tone for your guests when you are hosting casual entertaining in your home.

    1. Since habitually running behind schedule can throw your timing and your schedule completely off, the remedy is simple. Just a bit of organization can keep all of your planning and preparation on track. The result? A host that is not frazzled and exhausted as the guests arrive. For example:

    a. When you plan a get-together, give yourself 2-3 days for preparation. That might sound like a lot to you in our instant microwave world, but it is so well-worth the effort. You won’t be exhausted and you will have the chance to fix any mistakes you might make.

    b. When you do some of your entertaining preparation a day or two before your dinner party, you will have time to get dressed and ready a couple of hours before guests arrive. Turn on the music, light the candles and take a deep breath. Remember, you are giving a gift to your guests of delicious food and warm friendship.

    c. When guests arrive, make sure you greet each one and make introductions. Get a beverage in their hands and help guests who might not know each other well get acquainted. Offer a conversation starter such as something guests might have in common or something interesting from their lives. For instance, you could say, “Mary, I would like you to meet John.” “John, Mary was born in your birthplace, New York City.” Chances are, they will start chatting away about New York City and what is was like to grow up there and where exactly they each were born, etc. You get the picture. These attempts can encourage the start of a conversation for guests who are unfamiliar with each other and avoid the awkwardness that can be felt by guests who are new to your gathering. This sets a friendly tone for your party.

    d. Lastly, you want your guests to feel of all the way you could be spending your time, being with them on that particular occasion is exactly where you prefer to be.

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  • 05Aug

    Let’s talk a little more about setting the tone. Let’s discuss first about a few ways hosts unwittingly set a negative tone for their party without even realizing it. Observe the following scenarios:

    1. Scenario 1: The host is running way behind schedule. As guests are arriving he/she is frantically running around trying to finish the preparation.

    2. Scenario 2: The host is not home at the beginning of the dinner party. Guests start to arrive while the host is still at the store picking up food.

    3. Scenario 3: The host greets guests she knows well, but those newer to the gathering are left awkwardly standing or sitting by themselves. Although introductions may be made, there is no attempt to help guests unfamiliar with each other get acquainted.

    This short list is by no means exclusive. Let’s observe how these scenarios set the wrong tone and may leave guests feeling uncomfortable.

    1. Scenario 1: Guests who arrive at the scheduled time may feel like they have arrived too early if the host is still elbow-deep in preparation. The host’s invitation was important enough for the guests to make it a priority. They take time out of their busy lives to not only attend but to be thoughtful enough to attend on time.

    2. Scenario 2: Once again, this is awkward for the guests who have arrived on time. While emergencies do happen in entertaining and hosts must be flexible, this type of Scenario should be far and few between. The guests may feel like they have made a mistake by arriving on time or some may even feel offended that they made the effort to arrive in a timely fashion, but the host did not. This can be especially true if it is a habitual occurrence at this host’s dinner parties. This can lead to guests realizing that this host’s parties rarely occur on time, so they will not bother to be on time themselves at his/her’s next gathering.

    3. Scenario 3: Most people don’t love being in a social situation when they don’t know anyone. When a host does not make an attempt to help guests unfamiliar with each other get acquainted, this can make the newer guests feel out of place. Or they may feel that the gathering isn’t very friendly.

    In my next post, we’ll talk about the things hosts can do to set a warm and friendly tone when they host casual entertaining.

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  • 30Jul

    Good question! Actually, you are at the beginning because you have the desire to learn to host casual entertaining in your home for family and friends.

    You can boil down all of entertaining to three main things. And actually, only two of them are ABSOLUTELY necessary to pull off great dinner parties, barbecues, cocktail parties, luncheons, etc. Let’s talk about the first main priority of any host who wants to learn to entertain.

    Any entertaining centers around hospitality. That sounds like and old fashioned word, but it literally means, “A cordial and generous reception and treatment of guests.” (American Heritage Dictionary) Whenever you entertain in your home, you are practicing hospitality. You desire to be cordial (friendly) and generous in the way you treat your invited guests that you are receiving into your home.

    It is of the utmost importance for any host to understand that he/she is giving a wonderful gift to the guests of delicious food and warm hospitality. YOU as host, set the tone for your party. And understanding your role is essential for you to pull off off enjoyable and successful entertaining. Kudos to you for your desire to give such a wonderful gift to those near and dear.

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  • 25Jul

    Choices abound when looking for books and resources about cooking and entertaining. The Food Network has fueled renewed interest in cooking and home entertaining to an astonishing level. Television shows present celebrity cooks/chefs who give weekly creative ideas and know-how to viewers. Internet cooking sites and blogs are bursting at the seams with creative entertaining ideas and recipes available to their visitors.

    How does someone new to cooking and entertaining assimilate all of this information? Is it possible for a beginner to wade through the phenomenal amount of material without being completely overwhelmed? Does the landslide of information on invitations, decorations, menus, tablescapes, theme parties, wine lists and party planning tend to discourage some rather than encourage?

    While all of this information is a virtual cornucopia of lovely, fresh ideas, those new to entertaining and cooking need to concentrate on doing a few important things well rather than to make the mistake of thinking they need to master all of the above at the outset in order to be successful. In other words, beginners need to concentrate on the basics. They will gain skills and confidence and will be able to pull of enjoyable dinner parties from the very beginning. On to specifics in my next post.

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